Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. I’ve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a “unexplainable/uncontrollable” dad.
IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.
So if you’ve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (so…if you’re a minority and you’ve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by “getting clarity”, I mean (for me) being able to go “oh, that’s what’s happening” and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.
And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.
^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is
Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. You’re not alone. There is help.
Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You aren’t there to be anybody else’s cushion.
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family. It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors.
Ok this was actually a tremendously good read and why I can’t say I really walked away with any new information as a fanfic writer, what I DID get is a fantastic sense of validation for my craft because of how frankly and seriously this study was done, and reported.
guys I know I make this post near daily but I just need you all to know the season 7 holiday special of No Reservations has a segment called VEGAN BLACK METAL CHEF: HOLIDAY HELL ROAST!!!
Ursula has informed me that VEGAN BLACK METAL CHEF is indeed a thing and it’s pure, observe:
what’s the XF fic where they have sex and they’re tripping…….. might’ve been after Field Trip?? and Scully hasn’t had sex in like eight years or smth?? help
are we gonna talk abt Anthony Ramos in A Star is Born or nah…..
I have to say I find this excruciatingly heterosexual and masturbatory so far but I’m hoping it improves???
Bradley Cooper in this movie looks like if whiskey dick was a person
well I’m halfway through and I just spoiled it for myself bc I had Suspicions and I don’t. know that I can finish it. welp.
yeeeeah, nope. I have not understood a single word he’s said so far I can’t sit through another hour of this lmao I’m tapping out for tonight!! maybe I’ll get through the rest tmrw ¯_(ツ)_/¯
